Yeah I totally get that uneasy mix of curiosity and caution. Had a similar moment when someone new showed up in our building and the vibe just felt off, nothing obvious, just little things adding up. I didn’t want to jump to conclusions or make it awkward by reaching out, so I tried to quietly understand the situation first. Really appreciate you sharing that approach, it makes sense to keep things low key while figuring stuff out. It’s honestly reassuring to know others handle it the same way without escalating anything.